Japanese Beautiful Model - I used to be pretty as a small kid now i am ugly! help?

I used to be pretty as a small kid now i am ugly! help?

well i am asian (not japanese) so i do't have that entire perfect skin stuff.. in fact my skin is so distorted (on my face) that i hate it! it has acne scars, white head scars, and its all darkish and dull ! when I was younger.. like a kid my face was clean no blemishes or anything!.. and my black eyes were big and there was absolutely nothing wrong!..last year i gained weight but i lost it and went down to 115 lbs at 5'4''. however my eyes seem to have shrunk..(my mom as big eyes,.. and i even think she is alot more prettier than me!) i wear annoying glasses! my eyes are way too high in my face. my face is dull... at my lunch table today (which is a bunch of nerds and geeks.. no offense) a girl told another girl (which isn't very popular in fact i think everyone thinks she is annoying) that she was most likely to be next top model. and she added on to make it more clear that she was trying to say that, the girl was the prettiest girl sitting at this table! .and let me tell you this girl only has average looks compared to everyone in the school. and I was also sitting at this table right next to her! and those words that she said stung! it made me feel lower than ever!..the thing is that i was quite proud of my complextion before (healthy bright, glowing paler skin,, bright red lips.. and my eyes were considerably bigger! but now it has all disappeared! Its hard transitioning from pretty to ugly! can you give some tips to a girl who has broken her self Esteem and would like to regain that childhood beauty?

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that's life, kid
You can't change you're looks, kid. Sorry.
Be proud of who you are...not what you want to be. Looks capture attention, personality captures the heart.
Too much mCDonalds
ya, thats puberty mate...ge anti acne cream just never go low on yourself, there will always be people out there wheter ur shitfaced or beautiful :D
dont let anyone bring u down. and dont compare urself to others , that just makes u feel bad. as for the acne, get a good cleanser, zit cream, and wash your face everyday NO MATTER WHAT. For your eyes to seem bigger there are looks that you can try with makeup. on youtube.com search "a look to make you eyes look bigger" and you can look around :) - rate it best if u liked it pls.
Well, my answer to it, is that's part of growing up, during that time, lot's could happen. Look isn't everthing, but... I if you really want to look good, the answer is MAKE UP. I am an asian (Chinese actually) I feel very sad when I get aces and moles, I hated it. Well, as long as you are healthy and have a good life, it's better than look good for sometime and not having a good life. All I got to say is, that's OK. Things change, maybe you will change back to pretty soon. Good luck. If you really want to look pretty, Make up is the key.
Life is job...keep working oi !
Well I will say i thought that about me to when i broke out with acne last year because i was the pretty quite girl that every boy wanted but when I broke out i didn't let that bring me down or loose self esteem and people will see that if u don't have confidence in yourself and try to break u but it is a way of life everyone one change its called puberty but here is some advice eat healthy and don't eat alot of foods with TONS of food coloring and use CETAPHIL (IT REALLY WORKS I USED IT) and your healthy skin will come back and glow.Also build your self esteem and confidence back up!
Buy Proactive. It's a three-step miracle system. You can also buy some scar treatments and facial moisturizers to help yourself out. But...if your acne is seriously that bad, maybe you should go see a dermatologist. Once your face clears up, I think your view of yourself will change. You're still the same pretty girl that you were before. Just get rid of the acne, maybe get a new haircut to freshen up your looks, and you could also even try wearing make-up to make your eyes pop more or get a new clothing style. New clothes, hair, and clear skin will do wonders for your confidence. Give yourself a month to make yourself over so you can be that wonderful you that you are. Don't worry about what that girl said at your lunch table. You're going to change her mind as soon as you're done clearing up your skin and all. WORK ON YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE! That's the major thing here! Work on image and confidence, one step at a time. Once you're done, woww, that girl's gonna have a new person in mind that's top model worthy and that's gonna be you. :D
aweeeeeeee... story of every teenager i know. first of all stop being soooo judgmental. our features are meant to change as we grow. there are tons an tons of medication that work for acne, so your skin is not a permanent problem. be sure to were nice clothes, wear a little make up, everyone needs it. by being judgmental , you are harming yourself more than that girl is. i don't know what grade your in, but i' even consider changing school for a fresh new start. even if you only have 1 semester left. i might sound harsh an extreme but i really don't think you should ruin your high school years for your low self esteem. EDIT: see if there are any acne clinic where you live, talk to your family doc. let them know it' really drowning your self esteem.
well its not that important .its just a period than you will transit 2 a diva again do not worry & WORK ON YOUR PERSONALITY
1 i was really pretty when iwas like 5 to 7 skinny and all now im tall bigger and i hated myself...... i woke up one day and looked in the mirror and picked out all the stuff i liked anout by body and i show it... dont let other ppl bring u down thats the weirst thing u can ever do..... jsut inore them..... if u dont like ur skin try useing neutrogena advanced something it works get i just started using it and now my skin is smoother and not as red and black head and all are gone// not that many i dont break out that much. also wear makeup cancealer found. powder it covers it and evens out ur skin tone. then put on some eyeliner and black smoky eye shadow make them pop.... go to youtube and search smokey eyes tuturail or something it really helps. i bet ur beautiful and remember beaty is not on the out side its the inside that is counts can u help me http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080920190745AAMYHsb&r=w
Ha ha haaaa... everybody's saying tough crap, you are who you are. Welcome to the Ug Club. Well, true, but there's things you can do. Structurally, you can't change your face unless you do plastic surgery. But you might improve you skin condition. I've heard of this cream that's mixed with tiny sand-like granules. Rub that on your face everyday. The sand is supposed to gently rub away your top layer and reveal new skin (skin rejuvenates, like when you get cut). But this will take years. Slowly sandblast your face in other words. Thats all I got... PS, I'm a guy.... and I'm not gay... I just know a lot of crap.
Idk much. The acne, you can drink more water, most people don't. water helps flush out the skin. It helped my skin out im drinking a gallon a day. your eyes can't get smaller, you just grow as you get older of course. Vitamin E helps skin and Hair. If you keep your body healthy your skin will be healthy, exercise, eat good food, etc.
You're just going through puberty. I don't know anyone that thought they looked fantastic in the middle school/early high school years. I'm sure it's not as bad as you think right now. Don't worry, you'll grow into your looks and hopefully learn to love yourself as you get older. Try not to listen to what people say, that girl was just being an ass and she probably has low self-esteem too.
wow hun... look i think back to when i was a lil kid and think...awww i was so cute and what not but part of growing up is changing and im sure you are not ugly! i dont think people are ugly but i do think make up can enhance there beauty... now in your case you said you have scaring from past acne well hun for most people when you grow up your gonna get zits thats just that but for some it can get bad and there is scaring sometimes but you can get help! there are things you can get done my a dermatologists (doc for the face) they have skin peels...you would think it would hurt but it really just tingles and after about five times of doing that your face is gonna look great! untill then you should get some almay clean complexion makeup (concealer)...you said you have uneven skin tones so when you go to pick out your color what ever color skin on your face is the darkest get it to match that...you can make the lighter colors on your face look darker but its very hard to lighten dark colors...your can buy most of the make up im going to tell you about at walgreens or other stors like that its not gonna make a big dent in your wallet... now along with that buy a darker powder to go over that to help set the make up... now because you have darker skin go with a dark bronzer that has shimmer! it will really show off your cheek bones and also lighten your eyes...eyes can change everything! if you do the right things to show of your eyes people will be looking at them instead of your zits or scars... and never forget to blend! you dont want lines! and dont use too much! okay now onto your eyes... there are four parts of your eyes when it comes to doing makeup... you have the top line right above your eye lashes and then the small line right under your eye lashes on the bottom of your eye then you have to lid of your eye that does not just go to the crease of your eye but almost to the top of your brow bone then you have the brow bone... now for me i would say go with a dark brown...DARK but not black! now i want you to make a small line along the tip line of your eye and get it as close to the lashes as you can then use a eye lid bush to smug it around a lil then use a gold shimmer eye bowder and put that on almost all the way to the top of your brow bone now once your there use a white or light pink eye bowder on that bone then use that on the bottom line under your lashes (the bottom of your eyes) now finish this all of with a some what gold but brown lip stick and a nice clear gloss over it... now that we have the makeup out of the way i want to tell you something...i am not the most smart person you will ever meet but i am a honest person...and im telling you this from my heart... no matter how fat or skinny a person is not matter how many zits you have or if you have a huge scar that covers your whole face we are all still beautiful! stop looking into the past...the way you looked five years ago is not how you look today...and how you look today will not be how you look in five year...the teen years are the worst...its like you wake up and look in the mirror and it looks like death has taken over your body but babe that will go away and for all you know in five years you may blow all the other girls out of the water! but untill you start to not only tell yourself you are beautiful but believe it then you wont be able to grow... we all have our fault we all have our zits...but we are all beautiful! i live by this...keep the peace and find the love...that does not just mean with other people but with yourself has well! find the peace with in yourself and then find the love that i know is there! wish you the best and you should let me know how the makeup works out for you! and if you have anymore "?" hit me up! i would love to help MUAHx100
It's life and it happens. I'm sorry, but think of it as an ugly duckling. 10 years from now I bet you'll be drop dead gorgeous living it up in Paris or something. Haha, be positive about it.
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use proactive and makeup
Okay, first...it really shouldnt matter that much. I know it sounds rather cliche to say "If you are confident with who you are, then you end up looking pretty" but really i began to think that it is true. Im a tenth grader in high school now, but back in middle school i had terrible acne! I used to tell my friends how i seriously thought that i was disgusting! It has gotten better now, but theres still a few slight scars...which i try to cover up, but really, I have realized that because my attitude toward myself was low, i ended up showing it in public. Now i walk through the halls smiling and saying hi to everyone (it helps to outgoing too..haha) and now ive had people tell me im pretty. seriously, if your worried that you are ugly and no guy will like you or whatever, then he isnt worth your time anyway. there ARE guys out there that dont have their top priority for a girl, is her looks. Seriously, just be confident with who you are, and when you are...you will start to accept your features. Oh! and who cares if your eyes arent as big anymore. I have friends with such cute little eyes, and i bet you have them too :D Okay, im pretty much babbling and prolly not making any sense, haha but i really hope that you realize that everyone is beautiful and unique and that we should all accept it : ) Best of wishes!