Japanese Beautiful Model

How can I, an average white girl, compete with stunning oriental girls?

They are so beautiful! All of them look like models. My white bf just left me for a Japanese girl. She has the shiniest hair and most flawless skin. Do all white men prefer Asian women over white women? How can I compete with them?

Public Comments

1. How can you compete... Simple, with compassion and personality. Qualities lacking in these women you envy so much. Their loyalties are not with country, family or friends. Their loyalties are with money and fashion.
2. Get some surgery done :p
3. As long as you think of yourself as average and them as stunning you can't compete. No ALL white men do not prefer Asian women. I keep hearing that ALL men prefer women of other races than their own and the best that can be said is that some men do. If you think your BF left you for shiny hair, you have a real problem, men may be shallow but they are not that shallow. Men want companionship and most want to be babied, so look at how she treated him and not how she looks. That may be what attracted him in the first place but it is not why he stays.
4. They're not all prettier. Just on average. I'm sure you're prettier than lots of them - trust me, there are some really ugly Asian girls (Japanese included). But at least you're white - think of all the black girls who would kill to look like you!
5. Woah speak for yourself. Im white and Im not average
6. Your boyfriend didn't like you that much if he dumped your for someone else. Not all asians look like models, and you don't have to compete against them for a guy's attention. Just be yourself, there will be someone who will like you for who you are.
7. I'm bisexual and I've never been attracted to asian guys or girls..ever. Nothing against them, but no race or person is everyone's cup of tea. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So, don't get so down on yourself. P.S. Asian refers to the people...Oriental refers to inanimate objects such as: oriental furniture.
8. Do not be ridiculous. You are just feeling like that because your man dumped you for a japanese girl. This feeling will pass in time. No, not all white men prefer asian women and neither do black men/asian men all prefer white women. It is a totally individual choice.
9. I lived in China for a number of years, have spent quite a bit of time in Japan and Thailand and they are not all beautiful. All of them don't have shiny hair or flawless skin. Most of them are completely average just like most people in every race.
10. I've actually lived in Japan and visited lots of other Asian countries as well. Not all Asian people are attractive, not by a long shot. They don't all have shiny hair, or perfect skin. They don't all look like pop stars. That is just something people think for some reason. Beautiful, and ugly, is found in every country all over the world in pretty equal amounts from what I have seen. If your boyfriend has left you for another girl, it is not because she is better looking- it's because he is insensitive. And not all white men prefer Asian girls. One guy told me I looked too Asian and didn't have enough boobs (I'm mixed), and another guy told me I didn't look Asian enough because I have my father's green eyes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Oriental is a carpet or a vase, Asian is a person :)
11. I'm so sorry to hear that =( btw Your BF....he's an idiot. He's mostly likely going through a yellow fever stage.