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Why Does my 'best friends' disrespect me so much?

Hey. Im Maz, and my best friends Louison. We went to primary school together and yeah, we hated each other until we were in year 6. Then it all changed, she asked me to sit next to her in class, so I did. I think at first she was trying to have a laugh, because she was the popular one and I was the boffin who always had her head in a book. But then we started going roiund eachothers, haveing sleepovers, we were bet friends. Even though she was popular, she was abit on the chubby side (but still gawjus). But at the end of year 6 everything changed. We were going to different high schools. She was going to the rough school with the rubbish teachers, and I was going to the strict school, with the really good teachers. nobody from my school went to my high school. They all went to Louisons, Not because of Louison, It just happened to be there choice. But my dad was reamining firm, saying I must go to the better school. Im not angry that I went to st nicholas' (my current school). Im happy that I went to a better school. I made friends and Yeah, I wasn't the most popular girl, but Does it matter in life to be popular? But iot was the opposite with Louison. She was queen bee, And you know how big it is to be the most popular girl in year at high school. I know most of her new 'friends' are just using her for popularity, but whenever I try and tell her, she has a go at me. I know im overprotective but I don't want louison to do anything to stupid (trust me, shes the sort of person who would). Her new friends always gossip about me, they call me a dork and ask louison why she was ever friends with me. (My other friend tells me this(and yes, she not stirring, I can trust her)) The worst part is she doesent say to them, Don't be so mean, shes my best mate. She gossips back and says, yeah I know, shes a major dork. Okay, so I love wirting music and reading books, not slagging off every girl in the year, SO WHAT?. Im not as confident as her, but every time I confront her about stuff like this, she has a go at me, and some how, I always end up saying sorry. Recently shes been asking me Are you going to tramps? She always goes to tramps under 18 night and expects me to go with her. I don't want to. I wanna go with somebody who'll look after me, Like my older sister. My mums died, so I often go to her mum with alot of my problkems. But this is something i cant tell her. I mean its like somebody going up to you and saying your daughters a bitch. Theres also been alot of talk of what we wanna be when we're older. My passions with singing, but Louison likes doing that too. She loves outshining me. If I start singing she'll overpower me with her shouting voice. its annoying. So I wanna be a singer but then As a joke I suggested glamour modelling for Louison, and she took it seriously, so Now louison looks up to people like katie price. She also Keeps saying to me stuff like, You need to stop listening to your disney shit (demi Lovato, JB, stuff like that) and listen to 'real music' she puts on a dizzee rascal CD. She also told me to stop being such a baby. But the worst thing shes ever done to me, Is say to me, I wouldnt' care if my mum dropped down dead. She probably didnt intentionally mean it, But how the hell can you say that to somebodys face, when You know that there mum has died. I just dont know what to do anymore, I hate her so much, But theres something which is making me wanna be her friend, I dont know whether its the connection Ive got with her family. Her mum and ad are split but when we went to her dads, me and her step mum got talking and she was telling me how louisons other friends are rude and mean and impoliete. You might have guessed by her name that shes full french? Her mum is from france and so's her dad, She speaks absoloutley impecable french, and her stepmum is full german so shes also quite good at german, Yet she doesent want to take them as a GCSE, Louisons a bright girl, But she just pretends shes not because apparently its 'uncool' to be smart. Shes in bottom set for everything. It infuriates me, Whatever I tell her goes in one ear and out the other. I dont care if nobody answers, I just had to write this, let it out and ask one last thing, Has anybody else had/got a riend like this and if so, How did you tell them. Much appreciated. Thank You!

Public Comments

1. No offense, but your so-called "best friend", is a huge b****. If i were in your situation, the answer would be obvious. Just leave her. If she says all this crap about you, then obviously she's not a real friend. i suggest that instead of trying to salvage this sinking friendship, you should focus more on your other friends; friends that appreciate you and treat you with dignity.
2. You don't deserve to be treated like this. This girl needs an attitude adjustment and has to realize being smart is a great achievement and acting dumb just makes you look plain immature. The people who don't clown around and show their brains get more respect from adults, a step closer to being treated like one. You should stand up to her, or if you feel embarrassed or worried, go to your guidance staff in school. If you have no where else to turn, you could have a private chat with her mother in a responsible manner, and if you are close it is likely that she will understand. Speaking out is the first step to getting the problem sorted. If she doesn't change, you should just let go. No one should go through what you have been through with this bully. Seriously, that is what she is.
3. if u dont like this type of friend ,then forget that type of friend...keep away from her asmuch as possible.always try to avoid her if she comes closer tou...........thats the solution to ur quarry
4. "So here's the deal. What happened to you? You used to be a really fun person to hang out with (name a fav. memory) Ever since you became miss popular you have changed. And so what if I'm a dork? I don't think so. I like writing and singing and listening to whatever music I like. I don't need someone like you to tell me what I should do. If you like who you've become, that's fine with me. But I'm tired of hearing how your friends make fun of me and you're not even defending on my behalf! Does the word friendship even come to mind when you hear my name?! Look, if popularity and looks and all that shit means so much to you, then you don't need me anymore. I like my friends, I like being smart and innovative, and I don't want to talk to someone who wouldn't even care if their mother had dropped dead. They say you don't know what you have until it's gone. the old Louison has been gone for a long time; why should I even bother with you?" Walk away, and end scene. Ps, make sure you do this face to face somewhere private. Just so rumors and what not don't ensue
5. Ok so pretty much this girl has just always got 1 foot ahead of yours....that really sucks. But what you need to do is to first stop depending on her family. I know it will be hard but you need to go to a school counsler or someone that will listen to your problems and help you out. Then when you dont need her family anymore you need to set this girl straight say hey this has got to stop i will not be your friend anymore if this keeps happening. I am tired of you talking about me behind my back, and not being a true friend. The obvious thing is that this girl is somewhat very insecure so she has to have someone to help her feel more confident and that someone is you. She wants to be as creative and giving like you but she cant bcuz she is on top at the other school and its not cool. And you have to say you will give her one more chance to treat you like a real friend or she is just going to have to find a new one. And trust me it will be a very hard thing for you to do but this is how it has to happen. You will be fine and a lot better off without someone like this tearing you apart inside like this. Goodluck with your career and be confident and dont let people like her bring you down in life:)
6. I have a best friend like that but we go to the same school and yeah I understand where you coming from sometimes you just need to write down how you feel... You know what to do deep down... If you feel like you dont want to be here friend then dont... if you ever need to talk you can always email me because I am going through the same thing and I am in college...
7. You sound a very good girl , keep it up , we need more students like u !!! About ur friend, then I'd say get real friends , a true friend would not hurt u even at ur back ... Good luck!