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Daughter modeling for underwear maganzines?

Okay, so I'm an older dad, my daughters are all grown up and in college. I figured it would all be smooth sailing by the time it got to this point but I guess it wasn't meant to be. Well I take that back, nothing is really wrong I guess, I could have it alot worse anyways. Here is why I'm posting. My oldest daughter, she's 21 years old by the way, and who has always been interested in modeling, has recently started getting somewhere with it. I always thought I would be thrilled when her career took off, and in a way I guess I sort of am, but the kind of modeling she is doing I don't really feel comfortable with. So far she has done men's magazines. No, they aren't pornograhpic, but just in the fact that there is no actual privates shown. Most of the shoots she's wearing a g-string and that's about it. the more conservative ones she's got lingerie on. She's a slender girl but has always been bigger around the butt and thighs if that gives you any idea what kind of men's mags she is suited for. She's been in lowrider twice and FHM twice. There are others which are online mags. Yes. I have seen the photos. She's very proud of her photos and asks me to look. I find this very uncomfortable of course and its kind of why I'm posting. There's got to be some kind of support group out there for dads in my situation right? Anyone? I just hate the idea of millions of men ogling her in that kind of attire (or lack thereof) and whats worse, my friends buy those magazines sometimes, and a few I know of have seen her pictorials. They've been considerate and polite about it but I feel almost ashamed and angry, knowingthey have pictures like that of my daughter, just lying around their houses. I know I shouldn't get mad. I'd be a hypcrite since I buy those kinds of mags now and then too. I never really thought about the girls in them before, how their parents might feel I mean. Some of my friends have sons my daughter's age and two of them, everytime they see me, ask how my daughter is doing, or whether she is visiting soon, and I just want to kick them. They'd never ask that before her photo shoots got published. They have a sly little grin on their faces that I want to wipe off lol. Anyways, it would help so much if I was able to talk to other dads, or even moms who are in a simliar predicament.

Public Comments

1. let her do it...
2. She's old enough. Let her do it.
3. I wish i could help you, but i dont' know anyone in that situation. I've always thought about it though, like i don't believe its morally wrong to say...pose for playboy, but i would never do it for the simple fact of what my family would think, what if my dad buys those magazines? or brother etc... So i kind of know how you feel considering its the same way i would feel if i was in your shoes, or your daughters, though it doesnt' seem to bother her.
4. Only thing you can do is let her know how you feel. Tell her how much you love her and even though you want her to love and respect her own body that this isn't the best way to express it by showing the world. Tell her that it really upsets you as her dad to have all sorts of perverts fantasizing and talking about her to you. It's not about her, but for the sake of you. Once you get her to think of you, maybe she'll rethink it. If she still wants to do it (even though she would be ignoring the man who raised her all the years), then by all means let her do it. Even if you do look at those magazines, that's not the point. All guys like to look at hot models in lingerie. The point is just that you don't want HER as your own daughter to do it. Because she means so much to you.
5. tell her that women and girls are like a diamonds ,not show for anybody or it will lose its light,...if u can stop her ,then u have to stop her...she's doing wrong and parents should always correct their kids whatever their age.....maybe she wil be angery from u now...but when she grow up enough and have a daughter she will thank u,......money is not all thing...if she continued she will lose the meaning of her life as time go on...and she will not find something worth for her in these life..................and u know what , sons should do what parents ask them as it's right whatever is the age of them or the age of parents..........don't let her show her body for men and around men,that's disgusting............and i'm really sorry to tell u that...........