My gf wants to be a glamour model?
My GF told me she wants a boob job to which i have no problem, then she told me how big and DD. Thing is i told her they will be to big for her and look silly because she has a tiny frame. Then she told me why, Glamour model was words she said to me, i nearly threw up. I love her to bit but dont know if i can go out with her if she ever does anything like this. she said only stuff like max power and topless but if the money was right maybe adult. What do i do? Everyone has told hr not to because its such a sleezy job, she is beautiifull and could make it big normal modeling. Any advise or links (non glamour) be great thanks!!
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- In case she hasn't noticed, models don't have big boobs. Only porn stars.
- wow! tell her how u feel! BUT u can't stop her from her dreams so i think you need to sort it out with yourself (think it through, see of u can accept it) if not then you need to let her go!! good luck!
- Are you sure its only glamour modelling she wants to get in or will she take it further as like one of the other answerers said glamourmodels dont usually have huge bubes just porn stars. I dont agree with girls doing this,sorry Im with you I think its sleezy and shouldnt be allowed coz girls like this are the ones that turn men into cheating machines and the world would be a better place without these girls. It disgusts me as the breasts are there to feed our young and these girls turn em into something sexual which put me off brestfeeding my children as how can you give something that is assosciated with sex to your babies? Normal modelling I do agree with its classy and nothing wrong with that.
- HEY! Nothing wrong with Big Boobs on a Small Frame.. Mine are Natural and Im a DD. Oh and Im 5'5. Is she short. That could have something to do with it if you think it'll look funny..
- Make sure she gets the silicone ones, not the saline, they are much more natural appearing. She can get away with DD because first of all, if she doesn't have much breast tissue, she can only go so big and it won't be a DD. A D tops. And with the silicone, they look more natural. She needs more than a boob job to be a model, first of all, do you live in the right location? LA is the best spot for that. Also, she probably will have to start from the ground up, so many girls want to do that, she will not be discovered. She has to build credits, with low pay to start, in sleazier magazines. That likely will be all she will ever achieve, too.
- damn, don't worry about it. the only thing is that if she turns into a model she'll be on the road 24/7 and no relationship can be attained that way. it's probably her way of saying she doesn't want to be with you, in which case you wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't want to be with you, right? right.
- It's not that easy to get into normal modelling. It's not just looks they're after, there has to be something special about you and you have to have the right 'look'. I'm not sure about glamour work, I assume it's easier to get into because of the nature of the work. It's still a lucrative business though, and lot's of glamour models have celebrity status. If that is what she wants to do then you have to either support her or walk away. It's that simple.
- Modeling is a tough career lader Maybe a boobjob would help her confidence aswell. If your really really still not sure ask her to wait for a couple of months and have a very good think about everything glamour isn't really all that i would however not suggest going adult
- fake boobs are over rated. Not even playboy wants fake boobed girls anymore.
- I know I couldn't cope with watching my wife in such an occupation, but that said I don't have a problem watching other people's partners or wives doing such a job. When you think about, if you agree to support her it will be difficult to cope with seeing other lads ogling her, but if you don't support her every time that you pick up an FHM or Loaded you will be branded a hypocrite.
- models usually have tiny or no boobs
- You sound very worried, and quite rightly you should be. Two thing's worry me, firstly, not the fact that she want's to become a glamour model but the fact that she wants a boob job to help her become a glamour model. She's not being realistic. To survive in any kind of modelling, you need an abundance of confidence to cope with constant critism over your looks and to pick yourself up whilst being constantly knocked down, she is obviously lacking confidence if she feel's she is not good enough as she is. It is true a lot of glamour model's are enlarged but the truly successful one's 99% of the time enter into this type of modelling FIRST and THEN consider enlargement's. Jordan, believe it or not, was a Bcup when she got her first big break as a page 3 girl, which prove's that confidence got her where she is, the surgery only helped once she was already successful, that's worth thinking about isnt it? Secondly, what is the most worrying is that she said "if the money was right maybe adult". Which make's it obvious that she doesn't want to do porn at all but she'd be willing to do something she's very uncomfortable with if she got paid well. Warning light's should be flashing now between you and her family! All the sign's point that she's doing this for the wrong reason's, you need to gently tell her this. Tell her if she want's to make a go of topless modelling without the surgery, you'll be supporting her all the way. But that you can't stay with her if she goes into porn or rushes into surgery. If she can't compromise, then at least you'd know that she value's her own unattainable ambitions more highly than your relationship, and perhaps it time to call it a day
- Wow!!! I am touched. Show this page to your girl friend...I am sure she will feel your love to her. That is much much more than the bit you thought. I....cried. A bit too sentimental, recently :) Well... I thought of that before. Not because I want to be a glamour model at the time. I was only 15. That is because... I think I am beautiful enough but that is the little bit that I feel not so...good. So, I said..If I have enough money, I'll go for it. Just to make myself sort of "PERFECT" but later... I found that I am too weak, mentally and I am really the type of hot tempered people... I am actually so.. awful. For an Asian, the beauty from inside is more precious than how one looks. So, I realized, I was definitely WRONG~~~~ Later (up till now), I tried to look for opportunities to become a model. I just want to become a model and that's all. I let go a lot of opportunities in casting films, hosting exciting TV programmes... It is a hard way for me as I refuses to do some "EXTRA work"... I mean those shouldn't be done by a proffesional model. I know who I am and what I want to be... But today is actually really sad for me, I got my first invitation to go for model casting but I am too short, didn't meet the 169cm requirement... so sad... People will change... modelling is not a carrier that easy. We must stand firm on our own principle and never afraid to meet failure... I do not mean to critisize your girl friend but I think she is just not matured enough... Discuss with her, see whether she can join this career later? I mean until she is more matured...mentally. It is too dangerous for her.. Anyway, everybody have their own rights. Love her, then respect her. I feel that you really love her. If she didn't take your advice, please...don't be mad and what you should do (I think) is... stay with her, look after her... in case she meets failure, at least you are there. She will be glad that you are still with her. (If you really love her) but if you feel you want to give up half way, please don't feel guilty. Everybody have their rights and should be responsible to their own decision. EVERYONE.... ** But, in case u really give up half way, please don't get a new girl friend. You will sooner or later found that, that is not the one you love most. Espeacially when she came back to you and you decided to break up with your new girl friend... I tell you, that is cruel...man! People said, "That's not your fault, love is blind... and blablabla..." I tell you, that's you fault if that happens. Oopss... sorry if offended. I just let my voice out. Please allow that and I didn't meant to scold you or anything... It is just that I meet with a lot of IRRESPONSIBLE MEN like that. Warn you, so that there won't be another one... Errr.... seems a little bit out of topic. All right. I would like to stop here and wish you good luck before I end. May God provide guidance and wisdom to this men to solve his problem... Amen. Once you hurt a girl, the impact to her is for life... The reason I suggest you to show this page to your girl friend is because the process is more important than any other thing... You have the effort and you rteally cares for her... she will appreciate it. Good luck~* and sorry as i'm a bit religious but I always seek God when I faced problems :) If you have religion as well, never forget your God can help...
- i dont agree with what your gf has chosen to do. make sure shes fully aware of the downfalls of the job. big boobs are for pornstars, normal models, as everyone knows are actully quite flat chested. so, does she know that this could have big effects on her life? i dont think your girlfriend has imagined being a glamour model as it really is. you hear the world GLAMOUR & u get all excited thinking f flashy lights, beautiful women, fans etc.... i dont think its really like that & deffinetly not for a girl thats just starting out & what is she going to do when shes older? i hope my answer helped.
- you can't stop her from fulfilling her dreams instead you should support her if she is too passionate about it but first try to make her understand that you are not interested in her doing all this
- dont ruin her dreams for gods sake, if she wants to be a glamour model then let her bit
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